Empayer Hatiku
Sunday, August 09, 2009
14th Wedding Anniversary
Hari ini genap 14 tahun aku bernikah dgn suami. Masa berlalu pantas. Namun aku bersyukur setiap detik masa yg ku kecapi adalah anugerah Allah. Terkadang aku tidak percaya yg aku berjaya mengharungi susah senang bersama suami selama 14 tahun lamanya.Aku selalu mengenang kembali saat2 getir 4 tahun lalu. Setiap hari rumahku bagaikan neraka. Setiap malam ada saja perbalahan antara kami. Rumahtangga kami dilanda badai pada ulangtahun perkahwinan yg ke10. Hanya 'Allah' yg maha mengetahui bagaimana keadaan aku tatkala itu. Hatiku remuk redam bermandikan airmata . Barulah aku kenal betapa dalamnya erti sebuah perkahwinan. Ia telah membuat aku menjadi seorang wanita yg lebih cekal.
Aku terlalu sayangkan keluarga ku. Terlalu sayang pada suami & anak2 ku. Mungkin itulah yg menguatkan aku menghadapi semua masaalah dgn sebaiknya.
Apapun yg telah & akan berlaku adalah qadak & qadar dari Allah. Semoga aku kuat menghadapi setiap saat dgn cekal & penuh kesabaran. Sesungguhnya aku bersyukur atas setiap nikmat yg Allah berikan. Allah tidak akan sekali-kali menguji hambaNya diluar kemampuan hambaNya. Allah tahu kita kuat dalam menghadapi ujianNya jadi Allah berikan ujian itu ke atas diri kita. Di sini kita dapat lihat betapa sayang dan kasihnya Allah kepada kita sebagai hambaNya.Allah menguji seseorang bukan kerana Allah benci kepada kita tetapi percayalah yang Allah sangat kasih kepada kita. Cuma kita sebagai hambaNya tidak pernah hendak bersabar dalam menghadapi ujianNya. Pasti Allah telah aturkan yang terbaik buat kita kerana setiap yang berlaku ada hikmahnya....InsyaAllah.
Friday, August 07, 2009
Curahkan kasih sayang
1. Place notes in your lover’s lunch telling him how much you love him.
2. Page you sweetheart with an I Love You page.
3. Give her a soft kiss.
4. Make everyday things special.
5. Give your love a little note or sending him an e-mail with a poem init.
6. Listen to her every word.
7. Making a list of everything you love about them. No matter howstupid.
8. Spend quality time with the one you love.
9. Have flowers delivered with a note attached saying simply, “I loveyou.”
10. Give unexpected hugs and kisses in unexpected places.
11. Cook them their favorite meal.
12. Hold each other when you fall asleep.
13. Just be together.
14. Give your love a long hard kiss on the lips, followed by a gift.
15. Sending romantic postcards on a daily basis.
16. Get off work early and surprise your sweetheart with a dozen rosesand dinner, just because.
17. Spend all week thinking of something special for the weekend andthen… do it!
18. Give him a loving smile from across the room.
19. Draw or obtain a new romantic picture of two lovers in each othersgrasp and give it to your love as a reminder of your passion.
20. If you live quite a distance from your love, surprise them with avisit.
21. When she is asleep in the morning, cover her with rose petals andwake her up to an I love you breakfast in bed.
22. Secretly write S-H-M-I-L-Y anywhere your lover will find it. SHMILY=See How Much I Love You.
23. Have a romantic weekend.
24. For a week, smothering your spouse with all the small intimatethings they like.
25. Do a simple act of kindness, such as a backrub when he feels sick,to brighten his day.
2. Page you sweetheart with an I Love You page.
3. Give her a soft kiss.
4. Make everyday things special.
5. Give your love a little note or sending him an e-mail with a poem init.
6. Listen to her every word.
7. Making a list of everything you love about them. No matter howstupid.
8. Spend quality time with the one you love.
9. Have flowers delivered with a note attached saying simply, “I loveyou.”
10. Give unexpected hugs and kisses in unexpected places.
11. Cook them their favorite meal.
12. Hold each other when you fall asleep.
13. Just be together.
14. Give your love a long hard kiss on the lips, followed by a gift.
15. Sending romantic postcards on a daily basis.
16. Get off work early and surprise your sweetheart with a dozen rosesand dinner, just because.
17. Spend all week thinking of something special for the weekend andthen… do it!
18. Give him a loving smile from across the room.
19. Draw or obtain a new romantic picture of two lovers in each othersgrasp and give it to your love as a reminder of your passion.
20. If you live quite a distance from your love, surprise them with avisit.
21. When she is asleep in the morning, cover her with rose petals andwake her up to an I love you breakfast in bed.
22. Secretly write S-H-M-I-L-Y anywhere your lover will find it. SHMILY=See How Much I Love You.
23. Have a romantic weekend.
24. For a week, smothering your spouse with all the small intimatethings they like.
25. Do a simple act of kindness, such as a backrub when he feels sick,to brighten his day.
